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Cultivating Compassion
                                            Compassionate Communication for Healthy Relationships                                 Simple * Learnable * Effective

Are you wanting to say what you are feeling and needing in ways that will help you to be heard and understood? Are you wanting to connect with honesty and care? 
Workshops 2019
Next Foundation Training: February 23 & 24, 2019
 Post Beginner Foundation Follow-Up: ​"Applying the Skills and Navigating Common Pitfalls" June 29 & 30, 2019
​FOR MEDIATION, COMMUNICATION COACHING & 1 to 1 TUITION
Contact: paulettenvc@gmail.com​
​call 02 66847262 for a free 20 minute consultation to explore your specific needs
EMAIL FOR A FULL LIST OF upcoming workshops 

Communication affects the quality of ​ALL our relationships. By learning and practising the skills of Compassionate Communication we can consciously create the quality of relationships we want. 
Do you have the quality of connection you want?
My name is Paulette Bray-Narai, and this is the home of 
Express Peace Cultivating Compassion & my passion - 
​"Nonviolent Communication" 
aka "Compassionate Communication 
I love its universality and its simplicity; how it aids honesty, clarity and connection
and it's incredible power to build trust and good will in relationships.
 
Are you frustrated and wanting mutual understanding, trust or respect in a valued relationship? OR Are you wanting to get your needs met peacefully and maintain appropriate boundaries?

In my trainings and private sessions I supports people in learning, practising and integrating skills of NVC and emotional intelligence to consciously create the quality of relationships they want. 

 Learning powerful and effective communication processes that stimulates compassion in ourselves and others makes it more likely we can meet our needs and uphold genuine  connection in peaceful ways. For many this is life changing.

In my experiences, I have seen how our relationships are a source of great joy in our lives, and at times great despair.  Communication is a key element in any relationship - personal or professional.

How we speak to each other, listen to each other, understand each other, determines how well we live and work together. 

Practising NVC is an empowering and effective way to enjoy more harmony, honesty, clarity, ease and joy in relationships.  Join thousands of others by contacting Paulette for options and pathways. 
Act now and enjoy benefits sooner

Bookings & Enquiries:  paulettenvc@gmail.com
Foundation Trainings: 
"Communication for Healthy Relationships"
2 Days: February 23 & 24
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No experience needed -
"Understanding and Transforming Anger"
March 16, 2019
Bookings are being taken now.  Places limited. 
​Book Now by emailing ​paulettenvc@gmail.com
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No experience needed -
Parenting with Compassion Mini Course 1
2 and 1/2 Hrs, Thur March 7, 2019 10am-12.30pm 
Parenting with Compassion Mini Course 2
2 and 1/2 Hrs, Thur March 14, 2019 10am-12.30pm
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Bookings & Enquiries: paulettenvc@gmail.com
​Email  for information
​Group Coaching: 
Evenings: Tuesdays 6-8pm,
Mornings: Fortnightly Wednesdays / Fridays 10am-12;
$30 / $45 casual
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Contact Paulette for Private sessions: 

"Relationship Reviver"
"Saying & Hearing "No" with Compassion."
 "Balancing Needs.  Meeting Own and Other's Needs."
Parenting with Compassion
Booking: paulettenvc@gmail.com
Information: 02 66 847262

Imagine freeing yourself from unhelpful patterns of thinking and reacting that result in anger, hurt and disconnection.
Imagine developing relationships based on mutual trust, respect and compassion.
look at what is available on this website

"Be the change you want to see in the world."
Gandhi

Cultivating Compassion shares the VISION of the Centre for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) - a world where everyone's needs are met peacefully.

The INTENTION of Cultivating Compassion is to contribute to the growing awareness and practise of Compassionate Communication through learning, sharing, community and peace. Acknowledging and celebrating that each of us, in our own way, can contribute to peace in the world.

Tenzin Gyarso,
H.H. the XIV Dalai Lama: 
 "We cannot achieve world peace without first achieving peace within ourselves.... Inner Peace."

What People Are Saying:- reprinted with permission

​"I am so grateful for the enriching, inspirational reminders of where my heart sings, and where I long to live.  Congratulations on your Certification, Paulette.  May you share CC far and wide."
C Carter.  Parent Byron Bay

"The workshop was invaluable. The importance of identifying feelings and judgements surprised me."
T B

"Hi, Paulette

I've thought of you sometimes lately. When I hear people often use non NVC,   I strongly reminded the importance of NVC and thought I would like to refresh my NVC skill. 
Especially now I became a Naturopath, have started my business and would like to communicate with my clients with NVC.

Anyway, today I wanted to share something and say thank you to you once again.
I wonder if you remember when I had a private session with you.
I particularly wanted to communicate a person  and asked you to help me writing an email to him with NVC. I haven't had any reply from him But today, he suddenly contacted me  
I feel very thankful to you that you helped me with NVC and I could reconnect with this person. 
I still remember the first time that you responded me with NVC.
I felt like crying because I was so moved with your NVC and I thought my needs were understood by you. 
And it was a big healing for me more than any counselling. 
Thank you so much, Paulette. "
Mika.   Perth, WA 

"I found the workshop very helpful and will use what I've learnt for myself and my clients. It has given me some gems for my toolkit."
Diana M.  Health Service

"The communication used felt safe and open-hearted - grounded in embodiment and presence."
Joana M.  Lismore

"Celebrating ten years of commitment to NVC and your community with you, Paulette."   
K G Brisbane

Did I tell you that people in my “Dancing with Self-Compassion” workshops are LOVING your cards!!!!!
​Phyllis B.   USA

Ah Ha Card Feedback:
"During a NVC meeting I saw your cards being used in a remembering circle.
They made me feel mild and I adore them, I understand you made them yourself?
At the moment I use (…) and I would really like to be able to add yours  because they look so friendly and feel nice : ) and I like how they feel in my hands. 
G K
The Netherlands"

Upcoming Trainings:
Next Foundation Training: "Communication for Healthy Relationships" February 23 & 24
For bookings email: paulettenvc@gmail.com 

​Gift yourself or Someone You Love & Start 2019 Afresh

TESTIMONIALS

May Peace Reign on Earth

"Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right-doing, there is a field. 
I'll meet you there."
 Sufi poet, Rumi

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"Beautifully spoken and very supportive. Your facilitation was great and I really enjoyed the balance between the focus on personal situations and providing skills and information.  Great resources in the cards and dance. I will definitely recommend you to others. Thank you very much."
JE. Central Coast, NSW 2018

This website provides information about trainings, workshops, opportunities, resourses and events provided by Paulette Bray-Narai, & related to Compassionate Communication.

 The courses cater to adults and couples, parents and families, extended families and children, individuals and groups, including education institutions, businesses and organisations.
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