Enable connection with all family members.

"I wish I had known NVC a long time a go and will certainly use it into the future.  My relationship with my aging mother is so muuch better because I understand her now and respond differently, and am able to talk with her about her growing care needs in a way she responds to willingly. It is making caring for her so much easier and more harmonious.  Thank you, Paulette."
Grace K      Sydney

Compassionate Communication strengthens connections across generations.

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"A very gentle, nourishing process that was good for my soul and for my relationship with myself and my children." VHS- Parent and Parent Educator
"I've learnt to take things a little differently in our challenging moments-to slow down, take stock of both our needs and feelings and find ways to negotiate different strategies to meet the needs."  S Taylor Parent & Yoga Teacher

Creating Connection

Playful release of stress.
Healthy way for children to experiment with feeling powerful, especially if the parent allows the child to seem more in control and powerful.

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Testimonial

"I just completed the self empathy course with Paulette and highly recommend it. I was delighted with the course and Paulette's sesitive and empathic delivery and guideancel"  Sharon W.  Byron Bay

Enable more harmony, trust, clarity and joy in your relationships

Parenting With Compassion and Family Playshops

Establishing Healthy Connections
May 14, 2021, 9.30-12.30pm
About the Parenting Focus Workshops

All relationships can be enhanced with Compassionate Communication, including those within families.  Many parents struggle to find a way of parenting that is neither permissive nor coercive. 

With NVC skills you can parent in a way that inspires harmony & connection, power with, rather than power over. Learn new ways of understanding children’s & teen’s behaviour and new ways of responding, allowing mutual trust, respect and co-operation to develop & relationships to flourish.
♥Discover how this simple, learnable communication process known as Compassionate Communication or Nonviolent Communication,  can enable understanding, enliven connections and contribute to more peace and harmony in your life.

♥Explore and learn practical skills to support your parenting in ways that are neither authoritarian nor permissive, where everyone’s needs are valued and respected, and relationships flourish.

♥Learn how to create a quality of connection with yourself and others that will nourish you for a lifetime.

Parenting with Joy

And heart connection.

understanding sibling rivalry, mediation skills for children

Ongoing Online Trainings
Parenting with Compassion -
bookings: paulettenvc@gmail.com

With so much information available and genuine consideration of parenting from such thinkers as

Alitha Solter - Aware Parenting; Pam Leo, Joseph Chiltern Pearce, Robyn Grille - Parenting for a Peaceful World, and the many others, there is a rich array of ideas for the modern parent.
Regardless of what philosophy, or approach parents follow, as long as connection is important, the trainings provided by "Cultivating Compassion"  enable connections within your belief systems.  

From Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond, NVC can benefit your family.

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Testimonial

Paulette made me feel very comfortable and secure so I was more open to learning a new technique.  I found NVC a really great way to learn how to speak to my son more compassionately."
Christine S.  Brisbane Queensland.

NVC integrates well with many parenting styles:

consciously parenting
connection focused parenting
natural parenting
mindful parenting
intuitive parenting
compassionate parenting
parenting for social change
Regardless of the label, Compassionate Communication or NVC influenced parenting is a proactive style of parenting to promote and foster connection and secure attachment.
The benefits are a depth of trust and quality of joyful connection that can last a lifetime.

Articles of interest: "Saying Yes to No."
"Listening - The incredible Connection Healer."

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What nourishes you all as a family?

Do you imagine fun times together?

How do you move from where you are to where you want to be?

The clarity and choices CC brings support you to live in alignment with your values; to consciously live the life you want to live..

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How do you imagine parenting will be?

How will you talk to your children?
What is your preferred parenting style?
Do you and your partner have similar or different styles and approaches?

How can you both find a way of parenting that you are all comfortable with?

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Preparing for birth and becoming parents.

Coaching and support on knowing what you're feeling and needing throughout the pregnancy, birth and beyond, and how to communicate this clearly and compassionately.
Contact Paulette for details

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The couple's journey:  Do you see things the same way?

Do you have a shared reality?

How do you find common ground?

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Connecting as couples after the birth

Debriefing, support in expressing to each other your joys, celebrations and sadnesses around the birth journey and being new parents.

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Recommended reading:  "Punished by Rewards" Alfie Kohn


Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids' - Sura Hart

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Popular parent workshops: 
 "Being the Parent You Want to Be and balancing Empathy"
* Clarifying and aligning with your parenting intentions
* How to help yourself and your child be at your best
* Gaining insights into your child's behaviour and skilfully responding
* How to raise emotionally healthy, confident, connected children

"Freedom From Punishment and Rewards" 
* Communicate authentically and in caring, connected ways,
* Setting and upholding boundaries free of punishment and rewards
* How to raise children who willingly co-operate and connect